You want the perfect wedding dress, so you have made it a major part of your pre-wedding planning. You have to find some things in the bridal shop before you even look at your first dress. Do you need to make an appointment to visit the store? Does the store offer dresses that you can afford? Can you browse the entire collection or do you see only the dresses chosen by the saleswoman? If this shop does not wear the dress you like, can it be ordered?
Once these questions have been answered and you have found a dress or two that you like, there are still other questions to ask. Can we order a particular dress with different sleeves or neckline? What changes can be made and what will be the cost? Can you get a written estimate of the changes? If we order the bridesmaids dresses here, can we get a discount or free changes? Do you have headdresses and / or veils that will go with my dress? How much does the deposit cost and when is the balance due? What are the conditions of cancellation and refund? Can we rush on this dress if necessary? These are the most important questions to ask, but you will probably have more questions. Beware of stores that will not give you clear answers or written estimates. When you think you have found the right dress, ask them if they can keep it for a day or two, then go home and wait at least 34 hours before returning for another look. If you still love it, then go ahead and buy it.
On the other hand, if your mother, bridesmaid, salesgirl or girlfriend thinks that a dress is perfect and that you are not sure, use the same strategy. Wait a day; Come back for a second time before rejecting it. If a dress does not suit you or if you do not like it, do not give in to the pressure of store staff, your friends or even your mother. It's your outfit, your day, yours to decide.
Once you have chosen your wedding dress, the clerk or seamstress will take measurements of your bust, waist and hips, and determine if the dress should be covered. Almost every wedding dress needs some modifications. You will also need to make adjustments, usually at least three times. Make sure, if your changes are not free, that you get a written estimate. Find out if you can "borrow" your dress for a portrait session and return it for later support. Pay with a credit card to be able to dispute the payment in case of problem.
You have another big decision to make. What about your helmet and your sail? Sales staff should be able to help you choose a helmet that goes with your dress. The sails come in many lengths and styles, and again, the staff can help you choose the one that suits you best.
The veil you choose for your wedding depends on the dress you have chosen. If you wear a casual dress the length of a street, you should not choose a veil of cathedral or chapel, both lying on the ground. In the same way, you would not want to wear a flying veil, which barely touches the shoulders, with an evening dress and an outfit.
Remember that you must get the right lingerie, the right shoes and the right jewelry to go with your beautiful wedding dress.
Before leaving the bride's salon, there is one more detail to watch out for: your bridesmaids dresses. When choosing these dresses, you must take into account the age, the complexion and the body type of your assistants. Fortunately, the bridesmaid dresses of today are no longer cookie cutter dresses of the same color that no one would wear anymore.
Some options for bridesmaid dresses are to choose a suitable color and fabric for all women and let each one choose a style with which she is comfortable. Or you can choose a simple empire-waist dress or a line that flatters all silhouettes and let girls choose a family of colors, say purple, options that can be lilac, lavender, plum, mauve and orchid. If you choose to wear the same dress to all attendants, they can customize the look with small beaded purses, scarves, jewelry or shawls.
Also be aware that your bridesmaid's colors and clothes must complement each other.
The color palette of your reception does not allow you to choose a red plan for your reception in red if your employees wear green, unless you are looking for a Christmas look.
The wedding is over, now you have to decide what to do with this beautiful, expensive dress. You can place it on a shed at the back of your closet, where stains will settle and will be very difficult to remove later. You must ask in advance to your wedding shop or wedding consultant for the name of a specialist in the preservation of the dress. Many dry cleaners claim to clean wedding dresses, but most are not conservation experts.
Conservatives use two cleaning methods. Some use the wet cleaning method, this involves washing the dress by hand with a mild cleanser, which eliminates visible and invisible stains (champagne and sugar). Other companies use the dry cleaning method. cleaning machine. Once the dress is cleaned, it is wrapped in acid-free white tissue paper or unbleached muslin. Regular tissue paper contains acids that can stain and eventually break holes in your dress. Then the wrapped dress is placed in a cardboard box or without acid. Sometimes the box has an acetate viewing window. Store the box away from direct light to prevent the dress from turning yellow.
Having your dress cleaned and packaged by a reputable curator can cost between $ 200 and $ 400 depending on where you live. Before sending your dress, ask him if the work is done on the spot. Also check if you need to sign a disclaimer and sometimes say that the company is not liable for any damage caused during the preservation process. You must look for a conservation officer who will guarantee his work.
To preserve your dress, never wrap it in plastic, do not hang it on a wooden shed or ordinary wire, as it may lengthen and warp under its own weight. Do not try to clean the stains, it could get them.
If you are all engaged after the wedding, you can do things to prolong the life of the dress. Wrap the dress in an unbleached muslin or white sheet and store it in a sturdy box under your bed. Then, as soon as you can eventually wear the blouse at a professional curator. One day, your daughter may want to wear it on her wedding day.